Memorial Day is dedicated to honoring and mourning the military personnel who died while serving in the U.S. Armed Forces.
Here in the Northeast, it’s a chilly start to what many consider the unofficial beginning of summer. But perhaps the less-than-perfect weather is a reminder — a chance to embrace the true spirit of the day. Memorial Day is not just a long weekend; it is a time for reflection, remembrance, and gratitude. A moment to honor those who gave their lives defending our nation and securing the freedoms we often take for granted.
This isn’t just another three-day weekend. It’s a solemn pause to reflect on the ultimate sacrifice made by so many — in so many places, in so many conflicts.
How can we honor these brave souls?
One way is to express gratitude. Not just to those who have served and those currently in uniform, but also to our first responders who protect and serve our communities every day. If you’ve never thanked a service member or first responder, take a moment this weekend. It’s a small act that carries deep meaning. And when they humbly reply, “I’m just doing my job,” you’ll feel how powerful that simple thank-you can be.
Let us never forget the cost of freedom.
And let’s not forget the joy and unity that can be found this weekend too — in Memorial Day parades across the country, at veteran cookouts, and in the camaraderie that follows. These moments remind us of what binds us together as a nation. That unity and togetherness is something we need more of.
The brave men and women who serve put aside differences and rise above them. Maybe this weekend, we can take a page from their book. Sit down for a drink, a meal, or a conversation with someone you think you disagree with. You might be surprised by how much common ground you find. In a time where bickering feels endless, let’s remember: division is a luxury. Unity is a necessity.
Let’s honor their sacrifice by living in the spirit of what they fought for — together.
It’s also a time to remember President Reagan and his Proclamation 5826 - a Prayer for Peace on Memorial Day, 1988 and all Memorial days thereafter “as a day of prayer for permanent peace” and “designate[d] the hour beginning in each locality at eleven o'clock in the morning of that day as a time to unite in prayer.”
Prayer and Faith are somewhat lacking in challenging times like this with global conflict around the world and I encourage you to take a moment this weekend to pray for peace across the globe.
By Jonathan and Michael Goldstein
A timely reminder. Thank you, Dr. Goldstein. On this day particularly, I remember my Dad, who fought in the Pacific on Guadalcanal, New Guinea and the Philippines and my cousin Patrick McDaniel,, who died heroically and way too young on a Memorial Day weekend 55 years ago in a far away land. https://www.honorstates.org/index.php?id=286797